Last week, my husband and I met with a palliative care nurse. A few weeks ago, I shared in another column my frustration with seeking palliative care. Our meeting with this nurse was very helpful. I’ll share what I learned, and I hope it will help you, too. Keep in mind that every service provider and healthcare system may have different standards and advice.
What is palliative care?
As a reminder, palliative care is treatment focused on relieving and preventing symptoms that are distressing. Receiving palliative care does not mean you cannot also receive curative care, such as participating in research studies, being evaluated for a lung transplant, and considering new medications. It is not hospice care, which is treatment administered in the last months of life. Palliative medicine involves a myriad of healthcare professionals who consider physical, psychosocial, and spiritual factors in their treatment approach.
Our nurse explained the factors that determine if a patient is eligible for palliative care. They look at whether a patient is able to perform basic activities of daily life (ADL), which are measures of independence. These are basic self-care tasks, including:
- Bathing and showering
- Personal hygiene (brushing teeth, combing hair, washing face)
- Being able to dress yourself
- Toilet hygiene (includes getting to the toilet, cleaning oneself, and getting up)
- Mobility, such as walking and getting in and out of a chair or bed
- Being able to feed yourself (doesn’t include cooking for self)
I explained that I was able to do all these things, but it was getting harder and harder to do so. She understood and said to watch for things like no longer being able to stand in the shower or needing help with any of the ADL above. She advised that when these start happening, I should talk to my primary care doctor and she will put in an order for palliative care (home care).
Our nurse also asked if I was still able to drive. I said yes, but I only go out about three times a week for doctor’s appointments or to go to the grocery store. This is because going out is so tiring for me. She said that once I’m no longer able to drive, this is another trigger to initiate palliative care.
What to expect?
The goal of palliative care is to increase the patient’s quality of life. According to GetPalliativeCare.org, “You can expect relief from symptoms such as pain, shortness of breath, fatigue, constipation, nausea, loss of appetite and difficulty sleeping. Palliative care helps you carry on with your daily life. It improves your ability to go through medical treatments. It helps you better understand your condition and your choices for medical care. In short, you can expect the best possible quality of life.”
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Who’s on the team?
Your palliative care team can include doctors, nurses, home health aides, social workers, and other specialists, as well as your primary care doctor.
How can it help with PF?
As you know, pulmonary fibrosis has many symptoms that are difficult to manage such as shortness of breath, a dry cough, exhaustion, aching muscles, body pain, muscle cramps, depression, anxiety, and unexplained weight loss.
Medications and treatments can relieve some of these symptoms, which makes what we are going through so much easier. My philosophy is to embrace anything that can make this journey easier. Bring it on!
Help for our loved ones
Palliative care can help our loved ones, too. They have difficulties of their own and can benefit from someone to answer questions, provide a listening ear, and provide resources. They can help with what to expect in the future, as well as future planning.
I hope sharing what I’ve learned was a help to you. When I explained to the nurse how frustrating it had been to get specific information from my doctors, she said she hears that a lot, adding, “If you have questions, just ask a nurse.” This proved to be very true. Our doctors are focused on helping us with treatment, but may not look through the lens of what we need for quality of life.
What do you think?
I’d love to hear your response to this column. Do you have any experience with palliative care? What was it like? What was helpful to hear about? Please leave a comment below, and share with those who could benefit via email or on social media. We’re in this together!
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