Opting for Long-term Disability

Opting for Long-term Disability
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long-term disability

Christine Tender Points

Several doctors cautioned me against opting for long-term disability. Their concern was that I would become bored and depressed. I won’t say I didn’t have moments; but, in general, it was the best decision for me.

Yes, I was sad to leave a job for which I’d trained and struggled to obtain. I grieved my loss of identity, and I was fearful of my financial situation. The lack of interaction with friends and co-workers also was a huge loss. Without family in the city where I lived, it was difficult to establish a new social network. Most people who stayed at home all day were retired. I was only 51.

But (and this is a very big BUT) the positives far outweighed the negatives for me. My aching, exhausted body was so relieved to be free from the stress of my corporate finance job that I did little other than sleep for the entire first month. In addition, I was free to take the quantity of pain medication required to control my pain without worry that I’d be too sleepy to concentrate.

In time, I began participating in therapeutic activities that had been too strenuous or time-consuming during my lengthy workdays or less necessary than the household chores I had to accomplish on weekends. The first thing I did was resume swimming. When my symptoms were under control, I swam regularly on my way home from work. It was one of the first things to go when my symptoms worsened and fatigue became overwhelming. Now, I had the luxury of the entire day. I could swim when my energy level was highest – between 10 a.m. and 2 p.m. It was helpful for my body, but it didn’t fulfill my need for social interaction. There were few people in the pool at that time of day.

Then I added yoga to my life. I experimented with schools or types at first. Ashtanga yoga was too physically demanding, and I ruled out Bikram yoga because of the heat involved. I finally found a Kripalu yoga class, and there I stayed. This particular practice is an interaction of body, mind and energy. I found it to be stress-relieving and pain-reducing, as well as a source of inner peace. One word of caution here if you’re a newcomer to yoga: Avoid classes at gyms. They tend to be workout-oriented rather than emphasizing stretching and flexibility (the two most helpful benefits for FM sufferers).

Once I’d settled into a comfortable routine that included frequent exercise, a healthy diet and plenty of rest breaks during the day, I felt the need to be productive. That’s when I began writing.

My desire to help others prompted me to record and publish my unique experiences with FM in the hopes that I could prevent other patients from making the same mistakes I had made. Writing a book was a huge goal and a painful, lengthy process. I could write for only short periods of time. Otherwise, my neck would cry, my arms would ache, and I would be bedridden for days. I learned to take frequent breaks, but each one interrupted my train of thought. So the book, Tender Points: A Fibromyalgia Memoir, took nearly 5 years to write.

Do I recommend long-term disability for everyone with fibromyalgia symptoms? Absolutely not! No two cases of fibromyalgia or financial situations are the same. It’s a life-changing decision that requires extensive research and knowledgeable advice to make a reasonable choice for yourself. Please do not make the decision lightly or quickly, but do not discount it, either. Perhaps for you, as for me, long-term disability may change your life for the better.

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